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PROBLEM 1

Dear Agony aunt,

I´m writing to you because I need advice. These days I´m very stressed with the homework and tests.I feel like I don´t have time for anything, like meeting Friends, talking to people and spending some time with my family.

I can´t have a quiet rest because the only thing that I think about is homework and studying. I don´t eat well either.When I finish a test I have another two days after and sometimes I forget some things in the test due to stress. What should I do? I´m waiting for your answer.

A worried student.

 

 

Dear worried student  ,

You should organize yourself better  .What you should do is to start doing your homework at 5pm.Then. at 6.30 or 7, take a break. Take your phone , talk to your Friends or be with your family, rest for about 30 minutes. Later, go on with your homework until 9.00 . Take a shower, have dinner with your parents and watch TV for a while. At a quarter past ten, if you need it, continue doing homework until 11. At 11 pm, you should prepare your clothes for next day and the backpack. Finally, you must go to bed. At the weekends , take the opportunity to advance school tasks and exams.

Agony Aunt,   

PROBLEM 2

Dear Aunt,

I need you advice. I´m writing to you because I have a problem. My parents don´t understand me. They think that I feel very good because I am always smiling but they don´t know that I´m not good enough  . Like all the teenagers I have problems. I have lost Friends, I have met new people……but I never tell them. I try to talk to them. My mother usually gives me Good advice, but my father doesn´t know how to communicate with me. It´s for that when I have a problem, my parents are the last people to know about the problem. I want to have a better relationship with them because they think all my problems are because of the mobile phone.

I wait for your answer. I need to know what I should do.Thank you.

Tom, the misunderstood.

 

 

Dear Tom,

If I were you , I think you should talk to your parents and open up with all the confidence  and so They Will understand you. Talk to your mother, who you have more confidence, first. Tell her you also want to talk to your father but you don´t know how to tell him. Tell your mum everything you feel and so I think she Will understand you and she´ll make it possible the conversation with your father.

I hope this can help you and solve your problem.

 Agony aunt.

PROBLEM 3

Dear Agony Aunt,

I´m writing to you because I need advice. I have had a boyfriend since we were 11. I think we have the most beautiful relationship in the world. I love him so much. I know his family and we are all the time doing things together . But ……lately  I feel that he´s hiding things to me and I feel the relation is ending,

My best friend is his best friend and I know he talks to my friend and sometimes he tells her his problems. But they don´t tell me anything. My theory is that my boyfriend  is in love, in secret, with my best friend.I don´t know how I can ask him or if I should do something because I don´t want to lose him….

What would you do if you were me?

Desperate girl.

 

 

Hello Desperate girl!

I´m writing to you to tell you the possible solution to your problem. If I had found  out well reading your problem and looking at a possible solution, it is that you will have to talk to your boyfriend about this. maybe by talking about this he thinks about the wrong things, but if you have reached the point of thinking that the relationship is over, I would recommend you to talk about it to him.

I know it  can´t  be the best advice or solution. But from my point of view it is the best since you see the relationship is in danger.

Agony Aunt,

PROBLEM 4

Hi !

I am writing to you because I need advice. my problem is that the next course I am going to another school to keep studying and I’m afraid because I’m shy to meet and make friends so I don’t know what to do because I will be completely alone there and that is something that I don’t want to happen I’m afraid that that being  alone can affect me because this is something that had happened to me before and I don’t want to repeat this experience.

So what should I do not to repeat twice the same experience of being alone? thank you for your advice.

lonely boy!

 

 

Hello Lonely boy,

I’m here to help you. I am also shy and I know that changing high school and not being with your old friends could be a bit frightening, but I’m sure you will find someone who has the same interests. you may be a little nervous, but talking to others and smiling and I getting others  people’s attention can help you open up to others and feel comfortable in your new high school. no problem if you don’t have as many friends in your near school as in your old school. you have to be kind and be yourself with with others and choose friends with your same interests. Maybe , it has not been a good advice but I wish you luck with your new school.

Agony Aunt,

PROBLEM 5

I’m writing to you because I need advice. my problem is about food. The main problem is that I have a bad  nutrition and I’m not comfortable with my body. I would like to improve my body. the point is that I do a lot of sport and as I  do a lot of sport, I don’t gain weight. yes, that’s an advantage but I want to have the perfect body without fat so I heard the most important thing is a good diet and stop eating fast food. But it’s so difficult to stop eating this kind of food it’s like an addiction. so please can you help me with this. if you helped me, I would be very grateful.

El Dandy

 

 

Dear Dandy!

Hello,

if I were you I I’d go to a nutritionist to help you to eat better. I’d also go to the gym with a personal trainer. I´d talk to my friends and say how I feel about everything. you don’t have to feel bad about your body, you have to love yourself because you are you and you don’t have to care about anything else.

Agony Aunt.

PROBLEM 6

Dear agony aunt

I’m writing to you because I have a problem and I need advice. Some days ago I went with my best friend to have a piercing made in my nose. My mom doesn’t know that and now I don’t know what I can tell her. Right now, there are some  cases of  contagious because of Covid in the high school. I prefer to be with my face mask at home. I eat in my bedroom but she’s beginning to suspect something. I’m afraid and I don’t know what to do. she doesn’t like piercings. Can you help me? What would you do if you were me? Please. I’m waiting for your answer.

Smarty,

 

 

Dear worried student  ,

You should organize yourself better  .What you should do is to start doing your homework at 5pm.Then. at 6.30 or 7, take a break. Take your phone , talk to your Friends or be with your family, rest for about 30 minutes. Later, go on with your homework until 9.00 . Take a shower, have dinner with your parents and watch TV for a while. At a quarter past ten, if you need it, continue doing homework until 11. At 11 pm, you should prepare your clothes for next day and the backpack. Finally, you must go to bed. At the weekends , take the opportunity to advance school tasks and exams.

Agony Aunt,   

 

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